A LETTER TO COUPLES

why is it that our society is always eager to say the worst of women when they are guilty of having extra marital affairs but when a man does the same, people just turn their heads and say he is just a man. I am not excusing the fact that it is morally wrong or that they are justified for such acts but lets analize it properly...why and what are the reasons why they are going outside or seeking attention outside..Is it that their husbands are neglecting them or are these the signs of end times?....I had a chat with a friend of mine on this issue and she had a lot to say concerning this topic. Lets start from the very beginning of mankind, a woman was created from the rib of a man, close to the heart.It simply means that a woman is a softer man, that craves a lot of attention and care. There are little things men take for granted that mean a lot to that woman we call our wives or partners. They like us(men) to take note of very little things about them of which while we were dating we always noticed, but give a man 1year after marriage, we tend to take these things for granted. There was a day my girlfriend went and made her hair and i came in tired and weak and i didnt take note of it, she made a big deal of it and i had to beg her for a whole week to make up for it.As a man ask yourself one thing, when was the last time you bought her her favourite snack, or that little thing she loves, when was the last time u guys had dinner outside the house, when was the last time you guys went out and had fun, when was the last time you paid her a compliment on how sexy she looks or something close to that...the list can go on and on...all they are trying to say is we should make an effort to do some of those things we used to do towards them while we were dating...We all know the economy leaves us drained after a hard days work but lets take some time out for our women. Lets try as men to rekindle that old flame we shared when we were still dating..And women, this is not an excuse for lowering yourself and please talk about it when your man lacks or there is something missing or you want some more attention from the menfolk. Lets try and bring back our lost ethics and values...lets make this world a better place...TAKE TIME OUT FOR OUR WOMEN, THEY NEED OUR ATTENTION