What is true love?

The word "true love" is something that everyone wants to feel, but it is a fact that only a little part of the people has the luck to meet her. What is actually the true love?....most times we feel this is the one but seriously, what is the yardstick for true love......we have seen many cases of what we felt was true love end up in the thrash......better still i call it"true understanding" cos wit understanding comes patience and tolerance and if u have both....love grows

look good at all times

Standing out from others through a distinctive and appealing style, makes u different and seem like a puzzle and ppl will want to figure u out......that leaves him wanting more of you...a little complication is always a good spice..but dont over do it...
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Read Pope Benedict's full resignation letter

Read the full text of the pope's resignation letter below.
Dear Brothers,
I have convoked you to this Consistory, not only for the three canonizations, but also to communicate to you a decision of great importance for the life of the Church.
After having repeatedly examined my conscience before God, I have come to the certainty that my strengths, due to an advanced age, are no longer suited to an adequate exercise of the Petrine ministry.
I am well aware that this ministry, due to its essential spiritual nature, must be carried out not only with words and deeds, but no less with prayer and suffering.
However, in today's world, subject to so many rapid changes and shaken by questions of deep relevance for the life of faith, in order to govern the bark of Saint Peter and proclaim the Gospel, both strength of mind and body are necessary, strength which in the last few months, has deteriorated in me to the extent that I have had to recognize my incapacity to adequately fulfill the ministry entrusted to me.
For this reason, and well aware of the seriousness of this act, with full freedom I declare that I renounce the ministry of Bishop of Rome, Successor of Saint Peter, entrusted to me by the Cardinals on 19 April 2005, in such a way, that as from 28 February 2013, at 20:00 hours, the See of Rome, the See of Saint Peter, will be vacant and a Conclave to elect the new Supreme Pontiff will have to be convoked by those whose competence it is.
Dear Brothers, I thank you most sincerely for all the love and work with which you have supported me in my ministry and I ask pardon for all my defects.
And now, let us entrust the Holy Church to the care of Our Supreme Pastor, Our Lord Jesus Christ, and implore his holy Mother Mary, so that she may assist the Cardinal Fathers with her maternal solicitude, in electing a new Supreme Pontiff.
With regard to myself, I wish to also devotedly serve the Holy Church of God in the future through a life dedicated to prayer.
From the Vatican, 10 February 2013
BENEDICTUS PP XVI

         WOMAN STABS DAUGHTER INLAW TO DEATH

Abuja — A housewife, Mrs Kareen Opara, has gone underground after allegedly stabbing her son’s wife, Esther Oluchi, to death in Anguwa Baba area of Nasarawa State. But the police have launched a hot chase to fish out the suspect.
The suspect, who was living in the same neighbourhood with his son, Chinedu and the deceased wife, hailed from Umueze Ihitte/Uboma Local Government Area of Imo State. She was alleged have been at loggerheads for sometime over a picture taken by the deceased at the wedding of Kareen’s daughter, last December.
Trouble was said to have broken out between the late Oluchi and her mother-in-law when it was reported to her that Kareen was caught at a herbalist’s home with one of the photographs she took at her son’s wedding.
In a bid to retrieve the picture, Oluchi approached Kareen and pleaded with her to return the said picture to her but she ignored all pleas and rather took offence for the effrontery of her daughter-in-law.
Angered by what she saw as “confrontation” by her son’s wife, she immediately confronted Chinedu and warned him to call his wife to order or risk being punished along his spouse.
Unknown to the son that the mother had not forgiven his wife for daring to ask her to return her picture, Chinedu tried to mediate in the spat to appease his mother and the wife.
Family sources said a peace meeting summoned by Chinedu to reconcile his mother with the late wife turned violent, as the mother who was armed with a sharp machete, went for her daughter-in-law, who was carrying one of her two daughters on her back and stabbed her in the tummy. The machete pierced through her abdomen and she bled to death. Sources said she was five-month pregnant.
Meanwhile, the suspect’s husband, son and a neighbour, who were arrested in the wake of Oluchi’s murder, have been released by the Nyanya Divisional Police Station and asked to be reporting there weekly until the matter was disposed off.
But the mother of the late Oluchi, Lauretta Anyanwu, told Vanguard, yesterday that it was wrong for the police to release the suspects when Kareen had not been arrested.

Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. Dont give up on that dream......keep dreaming and be sure to work towards it

how men feel

 

A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational.....Dont expect too much from him take him as he is...

 

 

 
 

"Wherever you go that's where you are".Be aware of what's going on around you,the air you breadth,your senses must be at their best....bn alone sure does suck...sitting here lost in tots

nothing good comes easy

Every relationship comes with what i call excess baggage and you both have to want eachother to make it work...lets look at it this way, when u order a pizza it comes with different flavours and you love the finished product,we tend to forget the chef had to dice,fry,mix and a whole lot to bring out the finished product...so like a pizza so is a relationship with ups and downs...so dont gv up just step up

suspicion

Trust they say is earned but one thing that spoils trust is suspicion....give him a benefit of the doubt for it makes him feel you truely know and understand him...am not saying it doesn't apply to guys too but its more pronounced in the ladies....a little bit of trust and less suspicion goes a long way

trust issues

how well do you trust your partner,thats a question that u should ask yourself but come to think of it..how well do you trust yourself....if u can make mistakes then you should expect your partner to make mistakes also...the word TRUST....wat does it really mean

DONT SETTLE FOR LESS

The problem most women have, is they end up marrying for convenience and not for love and that leaves them unfulfilled and wanting more...

Ask urself

What is your definition of romantic and what are your expectations

Action works faster than words

Act loving even when you don’t feel like it because people will always remember how you make them feel. If you don’t have loving words to share, loving actions can go a long way too....trust me, it works like magic

make up your mind

Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no love. Without trust there's no reason to continue.

just a simple touch

Touch doesn’t need to be sexual to draw us closer to our partner. Rub each other’s shoulders from time-to-time. Hold hands when you walk. When we touch each other, it helps us feel more connected with one another.....try and re-connect through touching. you might be surprised at how much you both missed it

Try doing things together

Start doing activities together three to five times a week—go for a walk, shop for and cook a meal together once a week. It will bring you closer and give you shared experiences to bond over.

Dont make rash decisions

By looking at your perception of the problems and your reactions, rather than blaming your partner you are more likely to make the right decisions on how to overcome the difficulties. Always have a rethink before making that final decision cos most times decisions made in a rush are often regretted.....TAKE NOTE....hope your weekend was splendid