marriage ( is it worth it)

 

when is the right age for marriage that is the question i ask myself, some say early marriage is the best and some say both parties have to be matured enough to handle issues...so i ask which is best...early marriage or wait till one is matured enough..come to think of it, does AGE mean MATURED.....I had this talk on marriage with a friend of mine, who is getting married soon and she said to her their are three things she saw in her man, 1. the right person, 2. the one you love, 3. the one you marry and it got me thinking....even the ones in marriage are seeking attention outside their marriages...You have the men having affairs like it dont mean anything and even the women now are looking for men to make them feel complete or have that sense of womanhood...the question now is why go through all the stress of printing cards, planning an event, spending so much and still be unhappy....is it that the essence of marriage has lost its values or that marriage is not just enough.....I do hope to get married some day but with the present trend i often wonder....DO I HAVE TO SUBJECT MYSELF TO ALL THIS HASTLE CALLED MARRIAGE TO END UP DIVORCING AGAIN

        this pic is a picture of two people hooking up and looking so happy that this day has finally come to pass but do you think they are doing this for the right reasons......some people marry for convenience sake...like someone said look for a man that will take care of you and your kids...whatever happened to marry the love of your life or is LOVE NOT ENOUGH anymore..this and more are the question i ask myself and time keeps ticking...you have the pressure from parents about TRIBAL issues and RELIGION,the list goes on......SO FINALLY I ASK IS MARRIAGE WORTH IT