“I dont believein d word soul mates, or love at first sight. But i believe that very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws made u perfect together.”

Stop getting attached to people so fast, because attachments lead to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments...get to know them properly cos we let people see that part we want them to see....

The biggest mistake girls make is thinking the guy who hurt them once wont do it again.

he is just an individual

sometimes women expect too much from their men forgetting that he is just an individual....think about this (do you expect too much from your man)

dont expect nothing

"blessed is he who expects nothing for he shall never be dissappointed"......dont put all your eggs in one basket....keep an open mind so you dont get heart broken

believe in you

you will become on the outside what you believe on the inside......you have to believe in yourself before those out there can the best in you.....

believe in you

you must first believe in your potential if you are to do what you are capable of.........most times we give up because other people think its not possible...

Control your destiny and relationship

Our thoughts control our destiny, if you want to gain authority over any part of your life, you control what goes in and how you process ideas.....No relationship is perfect but you have to make it into what you want it to be....think about this for now till i come back for more tips.....

Unconditional love means dropping that list of ways you need to be different before you're good enough in your own eyes.  Perfection is the lowest standard anyone can have.  We aren't going for perfect. We're going for love!  What your partner needs is your full presence and appreciation, not perfection.  Sometimes you'll make mistakes.

take charge

watch your thoughts for they become words,watch your words for they become actions
watch your actions for they become habits, watch your habits for they become your character
watch your character for they become your destiny......all am saying is all you become is all in hands.....from today TAKE CHARGE......

men are like puppies

yesterday we talked about friendship and how much of a friend your partner is.....one fact u should know is that men are like puppies and they love attention and trust me u can get him belly side up if you know how to scratch him in the right place and the right time...stay tuned for more tips on how to have him eating off your hands

morning people, how was your weekend....last time i asked you all to ask yourselves what you think has changed in your present relationship.....before we go any further, ask yourself this question.....is your partner your friend?..that should be the base of any lasting relationship..think about this for a bit till i get back to you....... 

why men seek solace outside their homes

“Women need to understand that men would rather be around them than go anywhere or with anyone else.” 

Men will readily cancel any prior appointments to spend time with their women at home but how can that happen when all some women do is give us (men) a reason to go hang out with the boys where temptation is inevitable......
1. Nagging is a known excuse we (men) use to run away from home, when we are trying to avoid that talk that really affects the home......if u ask a regular man on why he doesn't spend time with his family, they quickly blame it on the women that she nags a lot and that's why they stay out.....

To avoid this, women should know the right time to bring up "that" topic....from a man's perspective, the most vulnerable time is when we are in between the sheets (winks).....

why men seek solace outside their homes

We have talked about how to get him to listen without thinking you are nagging......the next is.....
Ask yourself one honest question....are you the same person he got married to, do you have changed in any way....
That's all for today....till we meet again same time tomorrow.....so ladies ask yourselves this question........
AM I THE SAME PERSON HE GOT MARRIED TO AND HOW HAVE I CHANGED

Thanks to all of you reading and will love to read your comments......from your one and only
jamal

why men go out to seek solace outside

hi ppl, my name is jamal and its about time we learn the reasons why men look for excuses to stay out late when they dont have anything meaningful to do outside but choose to stay late just to avoid issues....

As time goes on we will learn how to lure that man back home..........